Heavens sundering: Is there a war between African men and women? Pt 1

In my last post– what is love, I ended the piece by asking how did we as a people, long the example in ancient times…hell 100 years ago… of family virtue, love and committedness. Why have we become serial actors on Jerry Springer, this or that hood rat wives and other degenerate sociopathic forms of entertainment? Why is it that the internet is riff with talks about an ongoing war between African men and African women?

On youtube as well as other media outlet, there appears to be mountains of evidence of a separation, a sundering if you will of the long standing bonds our parents and parent’s, parents talk about.

Are we truly at war?


  1. 1.      A conflict carried on by force of arms, as between nations or between parties with in a nation; warfare, as by land, sea, or air.
  2. 2.      A state or period of armed hostility or active militaryoperations: The two nations were at war with each other.
  3. 3.      A contest carried on by force of arms, as in a series of battles or campaigns: the War of 1812.
  4. 4.      Active hostility or contention; conflict; contest: a war ofwords.
  5. 5.      Aggressive business conflict, as through severe price cuttingin the same industry or any other means of underminingcompetitors: a fare war among airlines; a trade war betweennations.
  6. 1.      To come into collision or disagreement; be contradictory, at variance, or in opposition; clash: The account of one eyewitness conflicted with that of the other. My class conflicts with my going to the concert.
  7. 2.      To fight or contend; do battle.
  8. 3.      A fight, battle, or struggle, especially a prolonged struggle;strife.
  9. 4.      Controversy; quarrel: conflicts between parties.
  10. 5.      Discord of action, feeling, or effect; antagonism oropposition, as of interests or principles: a conflict of ideas.
  11. 6.      a striking together; collision.
  12. 7.      Incompatibility or interference, as of one idea, desire, event,or activity with another: a conflict in the schedule.

If we are truly at war then this is the end of African male-female as a species, because we know war never leaves any winners and if we truly are at war then the victor will only be  to those experiencing a pyrrhic victory. On top of all the issues we experience in a white supremacist world, the last thing the African family needs and should even indulge in is a so called gender war… to what purpose?

Still there are some who claims that we are not really in a war but are actually in a conflict…as if this is any better.


Are we at war? Are we in conflict? How did we get to the state we are in now? And what are the signs of our conflicts?

As a child I would often hear the older women come down hard on some alleged “no good men” and detailed their trifling and “doggish” ways. I would hear the younger women, some my age parrot the same shit about “all” men and how we are not to be trusted etc, etc. Of course the circle wouldn’t be complete if we didn’t have men who perpetuate the stereotype put out by the White Supremacists and embraced by some …not all…some of our women. Unfortunately it’s the voice of these few women that seems to be at the forefront of our story and his-story for the last 400 years.

There are about five main things that seem to be the theme and reasons African women usually claim that African men have lost her trust in.

  1. The women claim that African men are not loyal
  2. African women claim that African men are mentally weak and emotionally immature
  3. African women claim that Africa men are willingly less educated and less employed than her.
  4. African women claim that African men willingly abdicate their responsibilities as fathers and husbands.
  5. African women claim that African men are often and highly disrespectful of her and her worth.

For over a decade (at least) anti-African family inspired shows like Phil Donahue, Oprah, Sally, etc, etc, would hold a pick-a-nigger party where they would pick on and lynch African males. Not just on the relationship front, but also on the crime and incarceration front, Education and (un) employment and being an involved father. These shows would denigrate African males as dirty low down scum, who would father multitude of children and bounce from vagina to vagina like gash men, inevitably parading some simple ass knee-grow trolling for his fifteen minutes. Yet right beside him the bitch to his hound dog sits beside him, acting all wild and un feminine like and would get more sympathy than he, even though she maybe wilding out from the get go.

We –male and female-have become the freak show performers in a Sodom and Gomorrah type narrative, the poster children of  civilization’s end, even though European and Western (Caucasian) inspired societies and legacies has been decidedly anti-female, anti-family and anti-life. Yet we become spit lickers, licking and sucking up this vile and foul paint by numbers description of us, a people broken by the worst continual and sustained genocidal attacks ever committed against a people. Did I just say the worst? Yes unequivocally! After Hiroshima and Nagasaki the Japanese people rebounded, with assistance from their attackers, but mostly because their culture was intact, so were able to blow shit up and become an economic force. The Chinese after Soviet (Caucasian) inspired political mind fuck called communism, after eating their young and old, eventually turned it around and is currently the largest debt holder of the United States and is an economic power. They had their culture intact. Germany after the first European tribal war and after the second one AND after the Berlin wall was toppled has emerged as an economic power, because even during the time of the wall, had their basic Germanic culture intact.  The Khazaars of the black mountain of Europe, after Germany, was gifted with North East Africa, stole one of the African narratives and then kicked him and his mixed breed children off their ancestral land and rebranded it the Middle East. Armed with an intact culture are able to influence world politics and economics.



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