When elephants fight, it is the grass that suffers

The website Madamenoire did an article on Robin Thicke on December 22nd, 2011. Normally this cat is not important to me, because I see him as just another Caucasian who is eating the fruits of our tree, when many of us are unable to even view it. However, I confess he has been married to his wife for eighteen years and doesn’t hide it like Robert De Nero or slink around to sip that stolen water at night like so many in the industry. Bellow is an excerpt from the article, not a long one, but the part I thing is most relevant to me.

On whether black women are better off with white men

I think that’s ridiculous. There are so many good Black men out there that are hardworking, decent, and handsome, you know? To start that rumor is as bad as starting any other negative rumor. There are great Black men out there. There are only a few good White men — trust me. (Laughs) Good luck finding a good White man who understands your journey. I only have three White friends. I’ve got 20 Black male friends, who are all good men who take good care of their wives, and good care of their children. I know amazing Black men. Maybe the women have to take better care of their men. Maybe you’re being too stubborn. Maybe you’re not saying you’re sorry. You have to take good care of him, too. You have to give love to get love


It is relevant because a Caucasian man is saying it. When I say it or when my sisters Nojma and Anna Renee is saying it or numerous other African males who have eyes are saying it. The knee-grow females and the emasculated knee-grow males get all funky and attitudal. It is hard for me to believe it much more saying it, but I think our women hate us more than the Caucasian men.  Of course there are exceptions. Of course there are those who close their eyes and grit their teeth and engage us, because we are all they know, or their reluctance to be with the Caucasian man is strong.  Then again there are Asian men, Middle Eastern men, and of course the more popular fall back plans…other women.  I have been following my sister Nojma Mohammed  for awhile now as she dispenses woman’s wisdom in these times of dysfunctional behaviour amongst knee-grow women.  She also has several posts on www.thyblackman.com, doing the same.  It is amazing the level of opposition that this sister receive from women who refuse to intelligently and objectively LISTEN, to what she is saying.


They tend to reply with a bevy of yes, buts ad infinitum.  “Yes, I know the woman is trifling, but what about all those trifling niggers out thee” “Well, if the men weren’t dogs then the women wouldn’t act bitch…” Ad infinitum. In my post where I stated that men and women are not equal, I mentioned the effects on our emotional quotients on men and women based on the chemical secretion into our bodies through the adrenal glands. All things being equal, everybody, including the women in denial, knows that women are controlled excessively by their emotion. One doesn’t have to put on a lab coat and bullshit other idiots into over stand that. All you have to do is have a length discourse with an unaware woman and watch how she descends into emotionalism, out right throwing logic and reason out the window. Well Sankofa, does this mean men are not as emotional? Of course not, hell you have cat that are just as bitchy as some women and they themselves do descend into emotionalism. I mean how you think regular cats get into brawls or end up in gun play? Because of overt emotionalism, that’s why. But this piece is not about men. Oprah and other media out lets have just about beaten that dead horse to…death!


Recently Caucasian people through one of their propaganda machines, ABC, once again revisited this issue of African women being without a man, even while highly educated and in a high paying job. They beat the issue of the lack of available men to death, including the old, being in prison, out of the pool red herring.



ABC Report Why Successful Black Women Find It So Hard To get Married


For the matter, it just shows you that these women haven’t learned from other women that while having a higher education and a good paying job is fine on it’s own, it doesn’t give you a chance at a relationship unless you come correct. that means have a reasonable set of criteria and try not to put yourself out of that same pool.  I love how these women talk about height and such, yet turn around and talk about how men only care about looks. Then these oppressors bring it iceberg Harvey, old mackadoucious himself as the expert on relationship. I guess we can learn a thing or two from a pimp still.


However, what ABC, Steve Harvey and numerous other outlets fail to consider is that the tainted cool aid served up during the bra burning sixties and fronted by the likes of that CIA spy, Gloria Steinem, wasn’t enough for women to claim their place in this society…that is Caucasian women, not African women.


Gloria Steinem Targeted Black Women

This society has become so dysfunctional that women are not feminine. In fact such label is now considered prudish and out dated. Women want to be masculine, if not physically through lesbianism and sex change, then to attitude and mindset. And while this dysfunctional society is setting up that imbalanced status, it is also forcing, not encouraging, but forcing the males to be emasculated or effeminate through mindset, attitude and even physical appearance. Of course the 24/7 psychological war wouldn’t be as successful if it wasn’t supported by chemical and biological interference, which is creating ongoing biological exuberance… (this is a play on words of a bullshit book of which I will tackle down the line).

  It doesn’t matter how much you or I decry the imperialism and Anti-African hatred we see daily, if we continue to perpetuate this insipid self hatred of the only group we absolutely need for our very survival… each other.

The title of this post says it all: When the large fight, it is the small who suffer most. And when it comes to war, the smallest, the most vulnerable, are the children. Yes African men and women are now at war with each other and our children and our legacy suffers.


The Truth About Black Culture

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