This is for those who know

The strength of a man isn’t seen in the width of his shoulders.
It’s seen in the width of his arms that circle you.
The strength of a man isn’t in the deep tone of his voice.
It’s in the gentle words he whispers.
The strength of a man isn’t how many buddies he has.
It’s how good a buddy he is with his kids.
The strength of a man isn’t in how respected he is at work.
It’s in how respected he is at home.

The strength of a man isn’t in how hard he hits.
It’s in how tender he touches.
The strength of a man isn’t in the hair on his chest.
It’s in his Heart … that lies within his chest.
The strength of a man isn’t how many women he’s loved.
It’s in how he can be true to one woman.

The strength of a man isn’t in the weight he can lift.
It’s in the burdens he can carry

A strong woman works out every day to keep her body in shape …
but a woman of strength kneels in prayer to keep her soul in shape…

A strong woman isn’t afraid of anything …
but a woman of strength shows courage in the midst of her fear…

A strong woman won’t let anyone get the best of her …
but a woman of strength gives the best of her to everyone…

A strong woman makes mistakes and avoids the same in the future…
a woman of strength realizes life’s mistakes can also be God’s blessings and capitalizes on them…

A strong woman walks sure footedly …
but a woman of strength knows God will catch her when she falls…

A strong woman wears the look of confidence on her face …
but a woman of strength wears grace…

A strong woman has faith that she is strong enough for the journey …
but a woman of strength has faith that it is in the journey that she will become strong…

The European culture vultures and the knee-grows who contribute


Dear America , Tim Burton & Timur Bekmambetov,

The depiction of Harriet Tubman as biracial in a new Hollywood film ranks as the most hurtful denunciation of Blackness yet. In a nation that claims itself ‘multi-cultural’ and that everyone is part of a rainbow humanity-why are we constantly bombarded with the erasure of Authentically Black images? Why does Harriet Tubman, a dark Black woman whose grandmother identified her as an Ashanti from Ghana, West Africa have to look European in order for Westerners to acknowledge, celebrate and value her? 

Why specifically are academics and critical thinkers, Black and White alike, unable to see the blatant Colorism in music videos, magazines and countless films that seek to portray Africa as a continent peopled by light skinned Biracial women? How is it that intelligent people claiming there’s only one race-the ‘human race’-consistently paint the darkest people as motherless invisible un-people? How do they fail to see the blatant visual distortion as millions of African teenagers take up skin-bleaching and other forms of neurotic self-hatred to become the Whitened images that Western media routinely presents in place of Authentic Black ones? And how do you claim to love and revere the Black African male image (as Western sexism profoundly fetishes Black maleness) while at the same time erasing the dark womb that produces him? How do you save a man without saving the womb that he came from?

As an African woman, these media images remind me all too much of the various slave trades that have afflicted our continent. Non-Black people, mixed raced people and self-hating Black people are in charge once again of controlling our image and do so based on color-when a Black person does something horribly bad (O.J. Simpson); that person is ‘darkened’ several shades in media images. When they do something glamorous and cosmopolitan (Beyonce)-their image is lightened so as to give whiteness the credit. If a Black man is presented as a romantic image, then they must pair him with a very light skinned image in order to assure that he will eventually be bred into a more a palatable color, one that matches their ‘one love’ preaching racist eye.

I myself am technically biracial. The daughter of a White Arab Egyptian and a Blue Black Oromo woman, I was adopted by Black Americans and have lived off and on for thirty years in America. I speak seven languages and have authored ten books in eight countries and have lived in eleven other nations. Though like most North African biracial people, I am Black with African nappy hair, I am consistently told that Cleopatra (who had an African parent) could only look like Elizabeth Taylor and Angelina Jolie because she was biracial. Americans don’t take into account that biracial people in Africa are much darker than the ones in the United States. When arguing Cleopatra was half Greek, they ignore how dark the Greeks were thousands of years ago. It horrifies America that Cleopatra probably looked more like Kola Boof, Jill Scott or Waris Darie than like Claudette Colbert.

The recent monument in Washington D.C. of Martin Luther King depicts him as somewhat Asian-looking (it was sculpted by a Chinese artist). So now we have countless Black teens visiting the statue and coming back to report the lie that King was part Chinese. No one sees the problem in this-innocent Black children believing that Martin Luther King and now Harriet Tubman weren’t really Black people; thus credit for their humanitarian achievements belonging to other groups.

My current boycott of the film “Abe Lincoln Vampire Hunter” (wherein Tubman is played by a Half-Dutch actress) caused its White filmmakers to counter that their film is a comedy satire and that Thor and Tonto have been played by Black actors in recent films. But Harriet Tubman is not a fictional character like Thor and Tonto. Tubman is a Historical iconic symbol of the Black race’s liberation and self-identification; their break with enslavement and control by outsiders. To me you really have to hate Harriet Tubman to erase her true image and make her a light skinned biracial woman. That depiction, no matter how you attempt to dismiss or downplay it, says everything about White Supremacy and the erasure of Blackness.

In my latest novel, “The Sexy Part of the Bible”-I wrote about a beautiful charcoal-colored African woman who feels betrayed that her image in a Hollywood film is portrayed by a very Mixed-looking actress. Some American readers said I was being ‘sensitive’, but right after the novel was published, biracial actress Thandie Newton was cast by a British company as an Igbo Nigerian tribeswoman for a major upcoming film. Many Nigerian women’s groups both in the West and Nigeria formed a letter-writing campaign to protest such disrespectful inaccuracies. But as usual, we were told by a nice White lady calling us “sister” that it doesn’t matter if White-looking women consistently represent the image of Black Women. We were told by the White lady calling us “sister”…that African women’s actual blackness doesn’t need representation and that we were ‘racist’ for not wanting a White-looking woman to play an Igbo tribeswoman.

I reject such hypocrisy and hatred against my beautiful dark skin. I reject the recent film “Red Tails” where Black American women were completely cut out of their own history-the leading lady was Caucasian and not a single black actress appeared in the film. I reject Black American academics who claim “Africa is the most racially diverse continent”-no, dear Over-seer, Africa is the most invaded, conquered place with outsiders taking up our space. We in Africa are overwhelmingly Dark skinned and nappy. Arabs and Berbers are not Black people-so stop the lies Black American Professors. And I reject America’s lies about promoting a rainbow human race. America is for the whitening and erasure of other people; not the inclusion. When I tell these truths, Americans call me ‘bitter and angry’ to try and silence me. But there is no bitterness or anger in me. Like most intelligent Black women, I spend ninety percent of my day laughing and what I have said here is actual and factual. Your great society is as hypocritical and White supremacist as ever and a growing number of us are able to dismantle the beauty that hides your faces.

Black is beautiful, too.

Kola Boof

This letter was directed at the insulting and intentional stealing and whiteout of one of the greatest African revolutionary in our story….period. And it preceded the intended portrayal of Nina Simone by Zoe Saldana, replacing the initial choice that was Mary J Blige. Zoe Saldana is a Spanish speaking knee-grow from Brazil. And we know that there are more knee-grows and Africans in Brazil than anywhere else out side to Africa. Do you also know that most Spanish speaking knee-grows don’t count themselves as Africans? At best they call themselves Latino, which means “white”.  This is why the true indigenous descendants of that area calls themselves CHICANO to distance themselves fro the Caucasian invaders and rapists.

 I think both Thandie Newton  and Zoe Saldana are excellent actresses but this is way beyond acting skills but a continued and purposeful move to eliminate us as a people, visually, psychologically and then physically.  You know that little saying…”what would Jesus do?”  Well I ask, what would a Khazar do if Golda Meir is portrayed by a Woopie Goldberg?   She is …er…Jewish right” What would South Asian say if Indira Gandhi was played by an African from the corporation called the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA?

We know what happened to the movie  COLOR OF THE CROSS…right? You know right, that he portrayed the character Jesus the messiah. Can you find that movie? You do know that every movie made from Hollyweird has to pass by a sub committee that is an arm of the US government right? It has to be vetted by the GOVERNMENT of the corporate UNITED STATES OF AMERICA.  Have I gotten your attention?

The Caucasian ethnic group is exhibiting the characteristics of a desperate and dying group, clutching on to anything and everything they can to prevent the inevitable disappearing of a group that refuses to work in symbiosis with nature and other ethnic groups. It is a dying group and if we ate not careful, they will take a lot of us with them.

Dr. Clark’s journey started from that absence of our image and presence in his story. Are we taking his torch and extinguishing it because we would rather be accepted as happy knee-grows?


The Cockholding life style

I tried to find some pictures but realized that sometime my attempts to shock may turn off the readers. So I am linking this video and website for you to view on your own free will. Please over stand that the images are not to every ones stomach, but in the interest of the “seeing is believing ” mentality of our community I will leave it for you to see and believe.


A couple of years ago, in doing research for a earlier post on the Caucasian man’s peculiar penchant for bizarre sexual practices and came across a website discussing knee-grow men offering themselves up as sexual slaves for Caucasian women and…get this…the voyeurism of their Caucasian husbands and boyfriends. Somewhere during  a period of switching computers i lost a lot of data and the link to that website was one of them. I had totally forgotten about this bizarre behavior until i read this headline today:

Naked swingers ‘attack each other after their separate orgy parties turn sour when husband decides to bring his new partner home’

Being who I am, I started to do some looking around under the dirty carpets and came across this phenomena called Cockhold.  Here are a couple of dictionary description of this phenomena from the Urban dictionary;

  • A sexually inadequate husband who accepts his wife’s pussy is her solely property and she alone decides which men she will fuck,even if it means denying her husband. His only access to her pussy is to clean it of the ejaculate of males she chooses to fuck.
    Doug has the penis of a young boy and has never given his wife Jill an orgasm. His choice was divorce or be a cuckold. He is now a fully submissive cuckold to Jill.
  • A submissive husband with a wife who takes on alpha-male lovers whereby the wife’s sexual pleasures become the husband’s vicarious sexual pleasures and experiences.
    The cuckold husband developed an erection as his imagination ran wild with sexual thoughts during the preparation of drinks for his wife and her new lover.
  • A man who gains sexual pleasure in the knowledge that his wife has made love or is making love to other men. Cuckolds are usually submissive, often have a small penis, suffer from premature ejaculation, ‘enjoy’sexual humiliation and are rarely able to satisfy their wives.
    Neville’s wife first cuckolded him almost thirty years ago. He could not bring her to orgasm, only has a tiny (3″) penis, and my friend, Chris, became her lover and moved into our house. For two months, until the affair ended, I slept in the spare room and listened to her groans and grunts of pleasure and, worst / best of all, calling his name.

The website I saw awhile back involved the exploits of these knee-grows who were literally fucking these Caucasian women at a home party put on by them and their “submissive husbands”. They are called bulls and are mostly professional men indulging in their own little Jungle fever recreational activities, but, with the husbands right there jerking off behind them or in the closet or watching a video afterwards. So there you have it cockholding.

Now ever since I broke out of the prison of Judea-Christianinsanity and rejected Arabism as an alternative, i have journeyed into myself to over stand this relationship between the genders and how we equal parts suffocate each other, burn each other and ignore or humiliate each other in the name of ….LOVE! I have expressed MY worldview that the modern usage  constitutes a dirty four letter word that is as misused and misunderstood as any in the Anglish language.

But this shit is not about love. It is definitely a misuse of the meaning and context of that notion Here are some internet ads that i confess never for the life of me realized what they were. You know sometimes you will see something about hot wife looking for partners for threesome, or offers for swingers interaction…but this takes this low living to a lower level. Yes! this is blackmystory and I have called it a low life form of living.  There are more than a small amount of people that believe that we are not ALL monogamous and I include myself in this picture. I however, believe that some of us, men and women have that energy in us that makes us unsatisfied for being around one mate. Because of religion, these exceptions are FORCED to suppressed their desires and to conform to a societal norm, where religion is already suppressive. Readers you do know what happens when you suppress a personas natural tendencies don’t you? It either turns in on the host and destroys them, or it breaks out of it’s confined space and run amok.  Many have taken the swingers life to an art form….well except for the couple in the first link. Many of hidden behind Tantra and the our story of Tantric sex as an excuse to go fuck wild out in the streets or inside. And we people, like children, are given the wheels to the car for the first time and have gone joyriding with our buddies. Folks just because you have a high sex drive your supposed complement cannot satisfy, doesn’t mean you should abuse their trust and or hurt them emotionally. Our ancestors have put in place many checks and balance to prevent abuses. If hue man didn’t have rules and regulation, once we organized into communities, there would be chaos.

Those who engage in swinging or so called open marriage or open relationship, do so to satisfy their carnal interests or to explore some form of sexual identity/fantasy and many of the sheeples who follow it, do so because…well the are sheeples.

There are many Caucasians who love the cockholding life style… surprise, surprise!  Caucasian wives are also now able to fulfill their fantasy of getting lots of sex with attractive well “hung”, often young  knee-grow  men while their submissive husbands watch. According to a Caucasian man’s confession on one of the sites I research “it is a taboo thing in the south but some how plays to the white mans core”.

One doctor who counsels couples around Cockholding said...”after studying human sexuality for many years it has become inarguable to me that a cuckold relationship (in which the wife engages in sexual activity with a variety of men while her husband remains faithful) is most compatible with basic human evolutionary make up. It is straying from this evolutionarily grounded human bonding relationship that has produced such misunderstandings and conflict between the sexes.”

She further stated that …“At the very base of this principle is the understanding of a woman’s psychological need for a variety of sex partners. Women are literally hardwired differently than men. A woman has a dual sex drive….”

If I didn’t mention it before, sometimes after the wife has sex with the male “bull”, he me ejaculate inside her, in a condom OR on her. Either way the husband often cleans up the co mingling of fluids, often times with his mouth. That’s right, the emasculated , homosexual in the closet husband would LICK up the cum from his wife’s belly, breasts or vagina.

And this bitch with a degree is saying that : “it has become inarguable to me that a cuckold relationship (in which the wife engages in sexual activity with a variety of men while her husband remains faithful) is most compatible with basic human evolutionary make up.”

Keep in mind that in order for cockholding to work, the husbands have to be WILLING to share his wife with strangers. He is not sharing in the fun at the same time that you hear about in a swingers environment. He HAS to be submissive and emasculated for this activity to occur. But even swingers do have their issues as well: White Watch

It is so interesting that the Western (“white”) countries, are vehemently against polygamy, when non Caucasians do it that in order to APPEAR not to seem anti-ethnic haters, will also refereeing with and legally attack the Mormons, accusing them of child sexual abuse and outlawing polygamy. Whether the Mormons actually participate in child sexual abuse should be prosecuted, BUT with legally elected politicians engaging in numerous homosexual and heterosexual child sex abuse, child sex rings and other immoral behavior, it is above hypocritical and extremely disingenuous to accuse the Mormons and Muslims of abusing their wives or controlling their wives.  The swinging lifestyle and Cockholding are examples of interpersonal relationship not based on two of  the principles of Ma’at:

IV. The Principle of Opposition
“Everything is dual; everything has an opposing point; everything has its pair of opposites; like and unlike are the same; opposites are identical in nature, but different in degree; extremes bond; all truths are but partial truths; all paradoxes may be reconciled.”   Opposition draws its NATURE from the copulation of CREATION — the Big Bang if you will. An understanding of the Principles will empower one to change their own vibration as well as that of others, if they will devote the time and study necessary to master the art.
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In other words, when either the male or female seeks to force their partners into a pursuit of their choice, if an opposing  stance is not taken or respected, what occurs is suppression of feelings, whether through anger and resentment or through compliance based on fear of loss or injury. These feelings eventually have a debilitating effect on the suppressed person or an open and violent attack on the cause of the suppression.

VI. The Principle of Cause and Effect
“Every cause has its effect; every effect has its cause; everything happens according to Law; All the Principles have an interrelationship with Cause and Effect. Cause “comes in and out of bond” with Effect; all EVENTS are between the cause and effect. Cause and Effect draws its NATURE from the copulation of CREATION. In this statement there is condensed a wealth of knowledge.

As this western society travels drunkenly down the road of destruction and mayhem, knee-grows fail to recognize the pending doom and so join their traditional oppressors in that drug induced stupor, partaking in its destructive lifestyles and ignoring our cultural and spiritual traditions and principles.


Many PROFESSIONALS  claims that …”Cuckolding is often seen from the outside as simply a casual sex opportunity, but to truly enjoy it as a lifestyle, couples need to explore the mental and emotional aspects of enabling other males to have a sexual role in the marriage.: 

In other words to have a well balanced marriage, the best vehicle is to engage in the cockholding life style…not following the principles of Ma’at or the instructions of the elders that have gone before.

These “PROFESSIONALS” also claims that …” Cuckolding takes the foundation of a stable, loving marriage and extends it to include one or more males to play a specific, sexual role within the marriage.”

1. Submission to Female Authority
2. Obedience Training
3. Service to Mistress
4. Female Body Worship
5. Tease, Denial & Humiliation
6. Male Chastity & Orgasm Control
7. Corporal Discipline
8. Strap-On Training
9. Feminization
10. Cuckolding

My readers … this is feminism at work. The break down of the family structure, through the female masculine and emasculating of the males. Breeding homosexuals and lesbians and child molesters, encouraging normal folks to partake in a base life style of degradation an humiliation instead of elevating our spiritual senses and respectability.
Some accounts of participants in the cockholding lifestyle:
  1. My small penis husband is… mostly… understanding and supportive of my extramarital sexual trysts with other men, though not without the usual pangs of cuckold angst, jealousy, anxiety, worry, nervousness, fear, ache, distress, hesitation, misgivings, concern, unease, fretfulness, apprehension, humiliation, and feelings of sexual inadequacy that go with it.
  2. He knows that he will always have to share my pussy with other men.
  3. He experiences that anxious mixed cocktail of erotic emotional intensity that goes with the Hotwife Cuckold Lifestyle. He hates it, but he loves it. He fears it, and finds it humiliating, but it also excites and turns him on.
  4. I enjoy having sex with different men, and different types of men, and love the thrill and excitement of meeting and flirting and playing and being with someone new.
  5. I’ve always had a special thing for strong powerful dominant black men, and find them irresistible.
  6. I welcome all comments, particularly from other women and couples interested in the FemDom Hotwife Cuckold Interracial lifestyle, or perhaps contemplating it.

Here is a letter written to the owner of this blog site  blacmastershango
Dear Master Shango,
You and I have never met before. I have been following your blog post for some time now and I am deeply enamoured by all what you’ve declared regarding being a cuckold. My name is Bill and I live in the Mid-West, married for thirty-three years to a lovely blonde wife. We have two kids and they’re soon off to college. For years now I’ve been having these strange ideas wanting my wife to cuck me good. I want to see her getting used and made into a slut by a black man, and maybe more. But she’s too damn traditional and I have tried time and again to talk to her but can’t seem to break through. I read that three posts you made about getting the wife/girlfriend to do it and I’ve begun using it. But I want to know if it’s too late for me to get her to change. Pls help me out with this.
Your sub white boi,
I have said there appears to be an innate homosexual tendency in the Caucasian males, which is why he hates/fears the female principles and for the most part, strive relentlessly to destroy the sanctity of family…his own and ours. Women are survivors though and though the Caucasian males are bent on not perpetrating his seed, his woman will sex as much males as possible, eventually take the African seed in order to perpetuate ANY form of children. But in the mean time will fuck for the fuck of it.

This is the only website that will teach you how to get your girl to willingly cuckold you! In 30 days or less.