Courtship vs Dating: The afrikan/ Meritu way vs Yurugu’s

This story is lifted in it’s entirety from a USA today report, by Rukmini Callimachi, via Associated Press. My commentary is at the end of the story.


Women, not men, choose spouses on African archipelago

orangoA young couple holds hands on the island of Orango, off the coast of Guinea-Bissau.


Heads turn as Olga Agusta Perreira, 18, approaches a group of young men on the island of Orango, off the coast of Guinea-Bissau. In this archipelago of 50 islands of pale blue water off the western rim of Africa, it’s women, not men, that choose their husbands.

ORANGO ISLAND, Guinea-Bissau — He was 14 when the girl entered his grass-covered hut and placed a plate of steaming fish in front of him. Like all men on this African isle, Carvadju Jose Nananghe knew exactly what it meant. Refusing was not an option. His heart pounding, he lifted the aromatic dish, prepared with an ancient recipe, to his lips, agreeing in one bite to marry the girl.

“I had no feelings for her,” said Nananghe, now 65. “Then when I ate this meal, it was like lightning. I wanted only her.”

In this archipelago of 50 islands off the western rim of Africa, it’s women, not men, who choose. They make their proposals public by offering their grooms-to-be a dish of distinctively prepared fish, marinated in red palm oil. Once they have asked, men are powerless to say no. To have refused, explained Nananghe, remembering the day half a century ago, would have dishonored his family — and in any case, why would he want to choose his own wife?

“Love comes first into the heart of the woman,” he explained. “Once it’s in the woman, only then can it jump into the man.”

But the treacherous tides and narrow channels that have long kept outsiders out of these remote islands are no longer holding back the modern world. The young men of Orango, 40 miles off the West African country of Guinea-Bissau, are finding jobs carrying luggage for tourist hotels on the archipelago’s more developed islands. Others collect oil from the island’s abundant palm trees and sell it on the mainland. They return with a new form of courtship, one which their elders find deeply unsettling.

“Now the world is upside down,” complained 90-year-old Cesar Okrane, his eyes obscured by a cloud of cataracts. “Men are running after women, instead of waiting for them to come to them.”

For a man to go so far as to openly propose marriage is dangerous, say traditionalists on this island of 2,000 people.

“The choice of a woman is much more stable,” explains Okrane. “Rarely were there divorces before. Now, with men choosing, divorce has become common.”

Records are not readily available, but islanders agree that there are significantly more divorces now than in the years when men waited patiently for a proposal on a plate. They waited some more, as their brides-to-be then set out for the eggshell-white beaches encircling the island, looking for the raw materials with which to build their new house. Women built all the grass-covered huts here, dragging driftwood back from the ocean to use as poles, cutting blond grass to weave into roofs and shaping the pink mud into bricks. Only once the house was built, a process that takes at least four months, could the couple move in and their marriage be considered official.

There are matrilineal cultures in numerous pockets of the world, including in other parts of Africa, as well as in China’s Yunnan province and in northeastern Thailand, says anthropologist Christine Henry, a researcher at France’s National Center for Scientific Research. But the unquestioned authority given to women in matters of the heart on Orango island is unique — “I don’t know of it happening anywhere else,” says Henry, who has written a book on the customs of the archipelago.

That things are changing is evident in the material chosen for the island’s newest house: concrete. It was erected by paid laborers, not local women. Although priestesses still control the island’s relationship with the spirit world, their clout is waning, as Christian missionaries have established churches here.

“When I get married it will be in a church, wearing a white dress and a veil,” says 19-year-old Marisa de Pina, striking a modern pose outside her family’s hut wearing tight Capri pants and sequined sandals.

She says the Protestant church she attends has taught her that it is men, not women, who should make the first move and so she plans to wait for a man to approach her. To make her point, the teenager pops into her hut and returns holding a worn copy of the New Testament, its pages stuffed with post-it notes, letters and business cards. Her decision has caused strife inside the mud walls of her family’s house.

Like her niece, Edelia Noro wears store-bought clothes instead of the grass skirts still favored by some older women. She, too, attends church. But she says she doesn’t see why these trappings of modern life should alter the system of courtship. Although the island’s unique customs may be fading, there are still pockets of resistance. Often, it’s women who lure men back into the fold of ancient ways.

Now 23, Laurindo Carvalho first spotted the girl when he was 13. He worked in a tourist hotel, wore jeans, owned a cellphone and thought of himself as a modern man, so he thought he could turn tradition on its head and ask the girl to marry him. With the wave of a hand, she rejected him. Six years passed and one day, when both were 19, he heard a knock at his door. Outside, his love stood holding out a plate of freshly caught fish, a coy smile on her face. Carvalho still wears sandblasted jeans and flip-flops bearing the Adidas logo, but he now sees himself as embedded in the village’s matriarchal fiber.

“I learned the hard way that here, a man never approaches a woman,” he says.

My comments here

“black” Queens and Goddesses

Today, the Germanic descended Queen of England is one of the last actual, practicing (if only ceremonially) monarchs in Europe. Most that have descended from blood lines such as hers are not practicing or are very visible in any sphere that has direct influence on a nation’s policy…such as the family in Monaco. Outside of Eurasia, there are remnants of royal blood lines in East Asia and Meritu (Afrika) that occupy a mostly ceremonial position, but have more nostalgic and emotional recognition than having any practical or political effect on a nation. The Queen of England occupies an interesting position, relative to any other remnants of monarchies around the globe. She today represents as a political gatekeeper or emotional caretaker of the last vestiges of the old guard imperialism that saw the Brutish Empire once ruled all that the sun allegedly set on. This once large empire, that still controls numerous lands titles in North America, South America, the Caribbean, Eurasia, Asia and Meritu (Afrika). In a country like Canada, Government owned land are called Crown land and set aside for the English caretaker to tax and collect on once per year. In fact any land tax or national income taxes are directly related to paying for the privileges of squatting on Royal Land

(real; from French royale, from Latin regalis, royal, regal, from combining form reg- (nominative rex), king, + adjective suffix –alis.  estate; from Latin status, condition, state

The concept is derived from the feudal principle that in a monarchy, all land was considered the property of the king. Thus originally the term real estate was equivalent to “royal estate”, real originating from the French royale, as it was the French-speaking Normans who introduced feudalism to England in the 11th century and thus the English language; Similar to Spanish real.

Also in Maritime or Corporate law, the word real is additionally altered to mean that which is related to a thing (from Latin res/rei, thing), as distinguished from a person. Thus the corporate law-which controls our sleeping and waking hours under democracy (as opposed to natural law),  broadly distinguishes between “real” property (land and anything affixed to it) and “personal” property (everything else, e.g., clothing, furniture, money). The conceptual difference was between immovable property, which would transfer title along with the land, and movable property, which a person would retain title to. (The word is not derived from the notion of land having historically been “royal” property. The word royal — and its Portuguese cognate real — come from the related Latin word rex-regis, meaning king.).

The Queen of England represents the true world power today…the international bankers…robber barons, thugs and pirates that have been ruthlessly efficient in achieving what the architect of their rise— baron mayer amschel rothschild —- envisioned. That is total domination over the peoples of the planet through the control of their economy, education, food, entertainment, governance and interpersonal relationship. Today there are no true practicing King or Queen. So unless one is a descendent of a bloodline…regardless of the ethnicity or culture, calling one’s self a King or Queen is equally or even more symbolic, wishful thinking, delusional or confused. There are many in the dark matter community, specifically the female, who like to self proclaim themselves queens…“because we were queens back in Afrika…”. Note they never said there WERE queens, they said WE were queens. It is unfortunate and sad that the people, who often promote themselves as Meritu (Afrikan) royalty, tend not to overstand the concept of what a queen or King is.

Definition of queen, noun

  • the female ruler of an independent state, especially one who inherits the position by right of birth.
    • (also Queen Consort) a king’s wife.
    • a woman or thing regarded as the finest or most outstanding in a particular sphere or group.
    • a woman or girl chosen to hold the most important position in a festival or event:she’s the official carnival queen
    • (the Queen) dated (in the UK) the national anthem when there is a female sovereign.
  • the most powerful chess piece that each player has, able to move in any direction along a rank, file, or diagonal on which it stands.

 The definition of a king is similar, i.e. the male ruler of an independent state, especially one who inherits the position by right of birth. The most important chess piece that each player has, unable to move in any direction along a rank, file, or diagonal on which it stands, except for one space at a time. Once the King in a chess game is in check (captured of destroyed)…the game is over. I just mentioned how many proclaiming their Queenliness, do not act, look or think like a queen, yet demand royal treatment and that the male they cohabit with, perform the duties of Kings…whether or not they have the intellect or motivation to be one. You also have males who don’t know how to act their roles as MEN…masculine men as opposed to immature, emasculated and simp assed girly men, who praise these females without demanding accountability from them. Theses simps don’t do this because they don’t have accountability and thus if the females ever step up her game, then HE would be expected to step his up. Most of us in the dark matter community aim for the lowest denominator and standard and fail to, or refuse to raise the bar, not because they don’t know how, but because it requires work, consistency, progressiveness, integrity and self reflection. To be a Queen or for that matter a King requires the individual to be;

(a)  A Servant to the people; to have a sense of the people’s need and seek to fulfill it, emotionally, physically and materially. Failure to do so is the cause of numerous anti-monarchist uprising and the change to governance were more than just one bloodline speaks for the people.

(b)  Holding oneself to the highest standard of public behavior as an example of morality, virtue and conduct.

(c)  To be the example and litmus test that their subjects would strive to emulate and or are willing to sacrifice for.

I would like to point out that a Queen does not wear another’s crown. Like so many self professed females do with their weaves and wigs and glued on stresses. She does not behave crass or low brow in public or in private because her positive image is a large part of her title. A queen is never antagonistic to her King, however if hers is the throne, she would make sure that the Queen’s consort is of relative position or level and one who comes with his own high status. A Queen also has advisors who will consult her as to the best way to approach her position, relative to the expectation of her title and public persona. History and ourstory is filled with narratives of royalties who have failed to overstand this and thus have been removed from their lofty positions by their subjects or by opposing armies from other groups, nations or cultures.

Another self proclaim title the females in our community like to give themselves is the title of goddess. Many, who don’t overstand metaphysics, use metaphysical explanation to call themselves goddesses or for that matter when the male calls himself a god. However, people need to stay in their lanes and practice the simplistic religion of Christianity, Islam or Judaism…or their off shoots, because metaphysics transcends these restrictive cultish ways of viewing the world. To call one’s self a god or goddess is to admit that you overstand the connection of man to the outer verse or universe, and the innerverse. From a metaphysical level we are all connected…yes even Yurugu, because from us came them. We are also connected to the animals, plants and rocks and the planet itself. This is why conscious and spiritual ancestors say that the creator is in all living things and give reverence to the creative qualities in the rock, water, sky, bird, crocodile, elephant, etc. The ignorant and insipidly disingenuous calls this animistic and idol worshiping, even while they themselves pray with their prayer beads, or symbolically eating the “body” and drinking the “blood” of a “son” of their god. We are all element of cosmic dust. The makeup of our body is composed of the same element in the soil, in the air and water (which incidentally makes up 70-80 percent of us). We are electrical entities, pure electric AND magnetic in our makeup, but became biologically and spiritually dense due to some earlier trauma that caused us to fall from divine oneness with the all to contending against nature in a violent way.

 Definition of DIVINE

1 a: of, relating to, or proceeding directly from God or a god <divine love>
b: being a deity <the divine Savior>
 c: directed to a deity <divine worship>
2 a: supremely good: superb <the pie was divine>
b: heavenly, godlike

Definition of GODDESS

1: a female god
2: a woman whose great charm or beauty arouses adoration.

 In ancient traditions such as the Judaic narrative, which includes Islam and Christianity, a fallen angel or god/goddess (who are also commonly known as demons) work for evil purposes that lead to destruction in the world, in contrast to the good purposes of the missions that faithful angels fulfill. Judaism and Christianity are the two major religions that say that God originally created all angels to be holy, but according to this narrative, some rebelled and became fallen angels when they fell into sin. Religious cultists and believers stress the importance of people protecting themselves from fallen angels by staying close to God. But how does a goddess (and here I am assuming this title stresses a lesser deity than the creator), stay close to god, if they are not producing god like children? How can they stay close to god, when the defile their biological temple? How can they stay close to god, when they mar their original image, put poisons into their bodies, on their faces, on top of their heads and do all things manageable and possible to move as far away from their god given image as possible? Finally how can a goddess stay close to god, but cohabitating with donkeys and mules, ratchet knee-grows and homo-thugs?

I can hear my readers in their best Heath Ledger voice….”why so serious?” But why should I not be? Claiming to be Kings and Queens, gods and goddesses are just exercise in a failed attempt at self actualization.  Which is similar to having simulated sex with your palms or your fingers. Nothing more than fruitless masturbation or consistent foreplay without the inevitable release one gets from a fifth play. You know what you are doing-by attributing divinity or royalty to yourself. You derive a certain pleasure doing it-the superficial and temporary high from this feel good act. However, the result is less than anticipated, because your reality is still the same. Unless we change our physical conditions, proclaiming divinity and royalty is a joke. Unless we change our emotional and spiritual state, proclaiming divinity and royalty is emotional dissonance and intellectual misguided. Gods do not abuse goddesses. Goddesses don’t abuse gods. The way knee-grows abuse each other. Deity figures look to the power within themselves to grow themselves, not to outside sources for validation and a sense of worth. Knee-grows loves their cultural and ethnic oppressors more than they love morality, integrity and that person in the mirror.

The ancient Meritu/Afrikan belief in the duality of nature and the creative energy is exemplified by the goddess icon so many embrace…Auset, consort to Ausar and the ideal inner image of the feminine god self. We need a new approach and that starts with us getting serious psychological help. This delusional grasp on Goddess and Queen status or titles, obscure how much we yearn for acceptance, yet we constantly seek it without the necessary responsibility inherent.

This is the divine-Queenly presence of the Meritu/Afrikan….



 Notice how this speech embraces the concept of the duality of the two genders? Notice how the feminine principle identified in Auset’s speech supporting the male principle of Ausar? This is what queens do. But they must also be able to choose a King worthy of her submission to him. Otherwise these self proclamations without values are worthless.

Who is your master?

In 1913, Colonel Edward Mandell House helped to pick the charter members of the original Federal Reserve Board.

Edward Mandell House (originally “Huis” which became “House”) was born July 26, 1858 in Houston, Texas. He became active in Texas politics and served as an advisor to President Woodrow Wilson, particularly in the area of foreign affairs. House functioned as Wilson’s chief negotiator in Europe during the negotiations for peace (1917-1919), and as chief deputy for Wilson at the Paris Peace Conference. He died on March 28, 1938 in New York City. Edward and his father had friends in the Ku Klux Klan. The Klan dispensed vigilante justice after the Civil War. In 1880 a new legitimate group was in charge of dispensing justice in Texas — the Texas Rangers. Many of the Texas Rangers were members of the Klan. Edward was the new master. Edward gained their loyalty by stroking their egos. Edward would use his money and influence to try and make them famous. Edward eventually inherited the Texas Ku Klux Klan. Edward Mandell House helped to make four men governor of Texas: James S. Hogg (1892), Charles A. Culberson (1894), Joseph D. Sayers (1898), and S. W.T. Lanham (1902). After the election House acted as unofficial advisor to each governor. Hogg gave House the title “Colonel” by promoting House to his staff.

Edward wanted to control more than Texas, Edward wanted to control the country. Edward would do so by becoming a king maker instead of a king. Edward knew that if he could control two or three men in the Senate, two or three men in the House; and the President, he could control the country. Edward would influence the candidate from behind the scenes. The people would perceive one man was representing them, when in reality; an entirely different man was in control. House didn’t need to influence millions of people; he need only influence a handful of men. Edward would help establish a secret society in America that would operate in the same fashion — the Council on Foreign Relations. Edward Mandell House was instrumental in getting Woodrow Wilson elected as President. Edward had the support of William Jennings Bryan and the financial backing of the House of Rockefeller’s National City Bank. Edward became Wilson’s closest unofficial advisor. Edward Mandell House and some of his schoolmates were also members of Cecil Rhodes Round Table group. The Round Table Group, the back bone of the Secret Society, had four pet projects, a graduated income tax, a central bank, creation of a Central Intelligence Agency, and the League of Nations.

Between 1901 and 1913 the House of Morgan and the House of Rockefeller formed close alliances with the Dukes and the Mellons. This group consolidated their power and came to dominate other Wall Street powers including: Carnegie, Whitney, Vanderbilt, Brown-Harriman, and Dillon-Reed. The Round Table Group wanted to control the people by having the government tax people and deposit the peoples money in a central bank. The Group would take control of the bank and therefore have control of the money. The Group would take control of the State Department and formulate government policy, which would determine how the money was spent. The Group would control the CIA which would gather information about people, and script and produce psycho-political operations focused at the people to influence them to act in accord with Round Table Group State Department policy decisions. The Group would work to consolidate all the nations of the world into a single nation, with a single central bank under their control, and a single International Security System. Some of the first legislation of the Wilson Administration was the institution of the graduated income tax (1913) and the creation of a central bank called the Federal Reserve. An inheritance tax was also instituted. These tax laws were used to rationalize the need for legislation that allowed the establishment of tax-exempt foundations. The tax-exempt foundations became the link between the Groupmember’s private corporations and the University system. The Group would control the Universities by controlling the sources of their funding. The funding was money sheltered from taxes being channeled in ways which would help achieve Round Table Group aims.

Edward Mandell House had this to say in a private meeting with President Woodrow Wilson:

“[Very] soon, every American will be required to register their biological property in a national system designed to keep track of the people and that will operate under the ancient system of pledging. By such methodology, we can compel people to submit to our agenda, which will effect our security as a chargeback for our fiat paper currency. Every American will be forced to register or suffer being unable to work and earn a living. They will be our chattel, and we will hold the security interest over them forever, by operation of the law merchant under the scheme of secured transactions.

Americans, by unknowingly or unwittingly delivering the bills of lading to us will be rendered bankrupt and insolvent, forever to remain economic slaves through taxation, secured by their pledges. They will be stripped of their rights and given a commercial value designed to make us a profit and they will be none the wiser, for not one man in a million could ever figure our plans and, if by accident one or two should figure it out, we have in our arsenal plausible deniability. After all, this is the only logical way to fund government, by floating liens and debt to the registrants in the form of benefits and privileges. This will inevitably reap to us huge profits beyond our wildest expectations and leave every American a contributor to this fraud which we will call “Social Insurance.” Without realizing it, every American will insure us for any loss we may incur and in this manner, every American will unknowingly be our servant, however begrudgingly. The people will become helpless and without any hope for their redemption and, we will employ the high office of the President of our dummy corporation to foment this plot against America.”

Video On How The Legislative Act Of 1871 Was Used To Turn America Into A Corporation Controlled By The British Monarchy, House of Rothschild and Vatican – Ignore The First Few Seconds Of The Opening As It’s Very Vulgar, However, The Rest Of The Video Contains Lots Of Valuable Information.

Open your eyes….to affect a cure, one must first identify the disease…