The adage..”it takes a village to raise a child”, is an oft repeated refrain, that lacks much of any substance or weight among the manufactured beings called the modern knee-grow. One of our problems remains our insisting on throwing out empty or meaningless phrases, without overstanding their origin, meaning or impact on us and our lives. Due to our collective conditioning under white supremacy, our village has often been the church, the schools, the courts, gangs and increasingly the prison industrial complex. All of these organizational entities do not have a child’s best interest or welfare in mind. They are each concerned with their own image and how they will look to a jury of their peers or what the bottom line looks like. As a product of an environment, a former colony of the brutish empire and of the worst genocidal incursion in the modern era…chattel slavery…I am well versed in the idea that (a) children should be seen not heard and (b) the shitstym is best able to raise, edumacate or take care of the Afrikan child. This goes for us equally in the diaspora as well as on the continent of Afrika. Ad long as we immerse ourselves in the culture and practice the cultural mores of a savage, invader race, who colonizes our bodies, mind and spirit through reLIEgion, folly tricks and economic bully tactics…to name a few….we will forever be enthralled and spellbound by that culture. Many of us, a great deal of us, whether we will admit it or not, have failed to practice the village concept in our daily lives. Non more so egregious than how we raise our children. Many of us are products of not only a broken and damaged psyche and spirit, but a series of broken and damaged social interaction inter gender and between genders. This is reflected in how we view the world and how we view our selves, our worth and position in the world. We see the world through blue, green or grey eyes and consequently have forgotten the true meaning and impact of “…. it takes a village to raise a child “. We are a people of collectivity, not individuality. Our selfishness makes us imbalanced because that is not our nature. This not the nature of ANY sentient being in the planet. ..even yurugu. But it impacts us more because we are the ONLY group that is as far from our natural state as the sun is to the planet earth. The issue of child raring with us, is often a debate that is contentious, self serving and meaningless, because the welfare of the actual subject of the debate….the child…is ill considered, under the best of circumstances and totally ignored otherwise. As Khalil Gibran so eloquently put it.
Your children are not your children.They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.They come through you but not from you, And though they are with you yet they belong not to you. You may give them your love but not your thoughts, For they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls, For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams. You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday. You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth. The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far. Let your bending in the archer’s hand be for gladness; For even as He loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.
There is nothing more telling of a parents selfishness and over all bad parenting, then one tells another “this is MY CHILD!” This is the epitome of evilness that will quickly spread to how that person parents a child. Treating the child as if she/ he was a product of purely masturbation and not the exchange of fluids between a male and a female, will soon become difficult when YOUR CHILD, does not turn out exactly how you want them to turn out, so you see this failure as the fault of the other parent and ultimately the child. We live in a society that celebrates female independence, yet encourage them to be dependent on a system, that hates women, children, families and heterosexuals. It is definitely a system that hates Afrikan men and women, so it pits the Afrikan man and women against each other in a macabre dance of contentiousness and conflicts. It uses our self loathing and insecurities, that the very same system creates, to drive a wedge between us. All the while creating future generations of damaged children and damaged adults. Keep in mind that the knee-grow is the worlds only trauma victim, that has never had therapy, whether financially or otherwise, but is expected to catch up after 500 years of brutal trauma and victimization. Is there any wonder why more prisons are being built, more of us are experiencing mental health break downs and more Afrikan youth are incarcerated at a faster and greater rate than some of the most repressive regime outside of north amurdikkka? Is it no wonder that more Afrikan children are being taken from their homes by the legal child snatchers, independent agencies that are hired by the government to disrupt families, under their protection and the pretext of protecting children? So we have more children in this society, in general, who don’t even know what the village is, much less what the village support looks and feels like. And if it is bad for most ethnic group, in this society under white supremacy, it is 10 fold so, with in the Afrikan community. There was a time when the media would promote the idea that men are abusers, violent, destructive and bad parent. And even though the feminazis and those with an agenda and funding, to make still promote male violence as inherent, the rise in female domestic violence, child abuse and bad parenting seems to contradict the anti male propaganda. I say rise, but it is really not so much a rise as a consistent problem that many are not ignoring any more. Why is this, you say? Because while mens failures have been typically documented and rebroadcasted ad infinitum, women just can’t get out of their way and their emotions. Despite many agencies trying to make excuses for them. Our news feed is constantly filled with stories about be headings, torture, neglect that leads to tragedies, bad choices in friends that causes death and bad company that hurt and murder children. All from women and increasingly so from knee-grow females.
The story below is an example of a female that is deluded and exhibits such bad parenting skills, that one wonders what she did prior to this when the spotlight wasn’t on her. It illustrates how lack of proper parenting skills and common sense have now placed two little boys into a situation where they could be permanently psychologically damage, if they don’t get therapy instantly. of all the many ways and types of destruction we have vested onto our offspring, because of our psychological maladaptation to our inferior position in western (white ) society there is nothing as screwed up as when stupidity is the cause. Not using the child as a weapon in child custody or child support cases. Not negligence in allowing the child to grow greater than the retched environment your monkey ass grew up in and think is perfectly fine. And not striving to instill a higher quality of life purpose in your child. No…the most screwed up thing I have ever seen is when a nik-nak calls the poLICE to intervene in your supposed natural duty as parents. Knee-grows are calling the beasts to parent their children. If this shit ain’t some slavery mind set, i fail to see what else is. We saw it with some emasculated and probably latent homosexual father calling the beasts on his son to …”frighten him against being involved in gangs”..or some mess like that.
However, Tyeesha Mobley, 29, experienced what that knee-grow slave mindset has wrought, when she took this, most stupid act of 2015 so far, she ended up being arrested and roughed up and had her children taken away from her for four months after asking the cops to speak to her eldest about stealing. Not even in hollyweird could you make something up like this and make people believe it. You can read the story here. Please do! Then wonder why yurugu and other people dismiss us as inferior and useless eaters.
I am going to leave you with some words of Umar Johnson, who has seen these types of behavior. Destructive behaviors, up front, that has caused the destruction of the village we so often cite as responsible for raising our future generation.