As I grow older, I am happy that I have began to benefit from a parallel growth in wisdom and the ability to be discerning in views and in expressing myself. As you honestly shift in consciousness, it will begin to realize you are not the same person you used to be. The things you used to tolerate have now become intolerable. Where you once remained quiet, you are now speaking your truth. Where you once battled and argued, your are now choosing to remain silent. You will begin to overstand that the value of your voice and there are situation that no longer deserve your time, energy and focus.
The Man Who Views the World at 50 the
Same as He Did at 20 Has Wasted 30 Years
of His Life.
This is a statement attributed to Muhammad Ali about the natural changes in viewpoint an individual experiences during decades of growth and maturation. Part of the natural changes that maturity wrought is that of patience. Leo Tolstoy once said the two greatest warriors are patience and time. The universe ask us to do two things. To grow in patience and wisdom. In order to journey on this path we must unlearn what we have learned. Once we become an empty slate, we can then begin to once recognize good from bad, when you are calm and at peace.
Ever since I was a young one in the game of Afrikan consciousness, one of the more confounding and persistent issues that always seemed to muddy up the sweet waters of the burgeoning conscious movement, was the antipathy between the roles, station and pursuit of our place together under the sun. Till this day March 16 2017, this antipathy has grown to become sometimes out right hatred. Hatred that has caused us to shun each other for other ethnics, for same sex, or commit wanton violence against each other. Almost everybody can detail that the chasm which prevents the Afrikan male and female from working as a team of collective winners. Yet each of us, calling ourselves conscious, either failed to, or refuse to deal with the elephant in the room, by mouthing empty platitudes about black gods, goddess, kins and queens, without demanding that those who choose these titles or those whom we give these titles, to exercise the requisite discipline and lofty behavior. Behavior that lifts gods/goddesses, Kings/Queens above regular people.
I have stated before that we live in a matriarchy, disguised as a patriarchy, organized and ran by homophiles. It is the task of homophiles to destroy the family unit, particularly the Afrikan family unit, which used to be the standard for all others to look to. This matriarchy disguised as a patriarchy created an environment where masculinity is being destroyed and exchanged for emasculation, making femininity feel superior. Those females and manginas who embrace feminism and call them feminists, shun masculinity as barbaric, bringing in anti nature types of lifestyle such as male homosexuality in large quantities. Cross dressing, sex change operations and a variety of languages that further confuses people, easily confused.
More and more black people of both sexes, have accused and denounced the male homosexuals, leveling some of the most vile criticism on the kneegrow engaging in this base activity. Very few of these same people hurl similar level of criticism at the kneegress for her equally bold homosexual exhibitionism. In fact we know of many females who engage in lesbianism, publicly, privately and even unbeknown in many circles, who come out and marry and breed for a man. These females are allowed to come back to the fold, without much rancor, whilst the kneegrow is automatically shunned and denied reentry.
Don’t get it twisted, If I had my neither would be able to come back among us, Instead be regulated to a camp of their own making. Whether they want to commit Sepaku ( Ritual suicide by disembowelment) and die in their continued practice of white sex. Or inter breed with each other is immaterial to me. I only state how I see black people treat each sex differently. Today the out of control and masculine acting kneegress is so disdainful of the emasculated, effeminate acting kneegrow, that she has openly played both sides of the gender and racial fence.
No one talks about the phenomena of rapper Young M.A. Or the fact that Dana Owens has come out of the homo closet, for years now, claiming that sex with a man was the vilest thing she ever did. Kneegrows still call her Queen though. Kneegrows will still talk about Young Thug and the other phenomena of rappers dressed in drags and being undercover fags.
The masculine acting black female is often a prerequisite to lesbianism. Even then she would change her behavior when she is under the thrall of white men. Recently my friend shared this instagram post with me via text. Shortly thereafter I saw the same on instagram. What was interesting was how the kneegrows went in hard on these two men. Even asking if the Miami Dolphins player was any good.
Insults are the last resort of insecure
When the debate is lost, or on its way to being lost. When a hurled stone lands among a group of dogs, the one who cries the most uses slander as the tool of the last resort for the emotional and even physical loser. For the longest while i have heard many black men echo the sentiments of the Miami Dolphin’s player. In the beginning I admit that I too reacted negatively to these comments. Especially when the sentiments where shared strongly and uninvited. At that time I missed the frustration and real hurt behind these comment.
Over the years I learned to differentiate between the kneegrow who willingly chose to be with a mate of another ethnicity, and those who chose this as a last resort. Of course the ignorant and insecure will insert the fall back rejoinder about black womens frustrations and similar behavior. This post is not about her choices of other men, but about how many black men feel that they HAVE to find a non black woman to couple with. Overstand that their choices are often the result of taking the easy route towards the most available female, around them. After all there are more than enough quality black women in the diaspora and on the Afrikan continent. If one just chooses to leave their five square blocks of the neighborhood they live in. Or even the one city they were born in, grew up in, and is growing closer to death in.
This is a statement that many females, feminist and simps fail to grasp. Even more so when it comes to a lot more black women than before. This is essentially what kats like the Miami Dolphins player is saying. Of course the opponent of this statement will call him weak. I have read where they claim no man should attempt to “train” any woman. They have complained that the black woman is not an animal to “train”.
As a collective we act in a bi-polar manner, claiming that one one hand the system does not listen to what the black man is saying. Then on the other hand we choose to only listen to him when he rails against the machine. We ask him to stand strong in defense and in being a leader for the black women and children. Yet on the other hand refuse to allow him to be the leader we expect him to be. We ask the black man to LEAD! Without wondering how he will lead when most black men are subject to broken homes, irresponsible duel parent homes, including a large number of sole support mothers, and no training to be a leader.
Overstand that every black women desires to be protected, yet many black woman refuses to be of support to his leadership, because she sees it as being controlling. A classic example of this occurred back ion 2008. A very beautiful female from teh Island of St. Vincent, whom I worked with in a group home. She was a counselor of troubled female, yet she had man problems. She was educated. She handled her money. Even had her own condo, at a time when not a lot of single black females owned one. What I noted about her and commented on, was her constant pursuit of more education as she pursued countless executive type jobs. In a moment of openness, she asked me why she, in all her education, high wages and independence, why she was unable to connect to a man of worth. She asked why do all these successful black men go with white women?
This is how I broke it down to her. When you were in university did you hang out with the jocks? The party crew? The popular guys at school? Yes! Did you find the nerds, the non athletes or the quiet types boring? Yes! Well while you are hanging out and partying with the popular guys, the nerds and those guys who had no “game”, were in the cafeteria and library, studying to be a lawyer, engineer or scientists. While you are out here with the popular crowd, the white girl notices him by himself. She goes over and inquires as to what subject he is studying? She first sits with him and ask if she could study besides him. She strikes up a conversation. Soon they become friendly. Close friends even, Soon they begin dating, because she makes sure that this future scientist, lawyer or business CEO would make a good mate. This is how she comes up.
The white woman more than any other ethnic group is strategic in her come up. But the kneegrow only focus on the ratchet white females as if this is all the white females out there. Many of the kneegresses focus on the one or two popular kats that hundreds of other females fight each other to get. He of course is tickled pink and like a kid in a candy store, able to sample all the merchandise, he has no commitment or respect for the women who fight to see who can be more nasty and willing. Even when the white woman herself is ratchet as they come. she still know how to play her role in a way that makes the male feels like a man. Is her shit perfect? Of course not. Do we have black women who do play their role? Yes! But even among those black women, I have seen many who have competed with the man instead of complimenting him. Many do it in a passive aggressive way.
At the end of the day, I feel many of these men do cut and run two quick. And many of them lack masculine qualities, even if his vocation is playing in the NFL. But lets not just discard everything he feels and says, just because you think he is wack, weak or whatever else you feel he has to be. Many of us listen to and embrace the notion when the black women voices her feelings of betrayal and abandonment by the black man. But we tend to reject it when the man does the same. Both are voicing emotions from a deep down place of hurt. And this is where we should start the dialogue instead of automatically abusing them.
Not every black woman is a Sage Steel, Serena Williams or Zoe Saldana. Having sex with white men while shitting on black men. But not every black man are like Charles Barkley, Little Smeagle (little Wayne) or a Kanye West, who willingly have sex with white women while clowning black women. We do have a problem among us with emasculated men with too much feminine energy and two any masculine acting black women with too much aggressiveness disguised or mislabeled as being strong.
And as long as we don’t play our respective role, stop competing with each other. Stop denigrating each other instead of complementing each other by working towards a mutual goal of nation building. The enemy will come and take our inheritance.
What do you think?