Hypocrites and parasite will come up to take a bite

Who the cap fit

Man to man is so unjust, children:
Ya don’t know who to trust.
Your worst enemy could be your best friend, And your best friend your worse enemy.

It is often said that a thing best left unsaid is better than being addressed. Often times the people who you are in your corner are your biggest detractors.

Some will eat and drink with you,
Then behind them su-su ‘pon you.
Only your friend know your secrets,
So only he could reveal it.

The Jamaican dance hall community is not just a community of entertainers. They unlike many other communities around the world, strongly reflect the mindset of the socity at large. At least for the socially impoverished and te impoverished of mind.
And who the cap fit, let them wear it!
Who the cap fit, let them wear it!
Said I throw me corn, me no call no fowl;
I saying, “Cook-cook-cook, cluk-cluk-cluk.”

When it came out that infamous dance hall icon Bounty Killah had warned female singer Ishawna not to sing her hit tune Equal Rights: what that tongue can do, i thought it was just posturing. Apparently his veiled warning about potentially harming her, if she sang that song at any show they both appeared in has drawn three sides to this story. Three sides you say? One side you have the misogynist, who insist that any Jamaican man licking a womans vagina is a mortal sin and should face serious retaliation. And any woman who suggest this should be dealt with forcefully. On the other side you have few men not ashamed of licking a womans vagina, supporting and loving the song. Though the way many in Jamaican society can devolve into frenzied violence in heart beat, i am uncertain if these men would publicly declare their love of cunnilingus.

Thirdly are the women who big up Ishawna for publicly talking about things that women talk about when we are not around them.

Some will hate you, pretend they love you now, Then behind they try to eliminate you. But who Jah bless, no one curse;
Thank God, we’re past the worse.

Alas there is a fourth element recently added to this initial pyramid of confusion, where you have people like Maka Diamond, she who is no dance hall saint, claiming that Ishawna’s song is for freaky women and men, but people like her who is not freaky,  feel the song is too much.

Say fucking what? This is what happens when weak personalities feel social pressure to act and behave as if they are holding a moral ground. As my good friend Margarete told me…”some people think a moral (mural) is something you hang on a wall”.

Hypocrites and parasites
Will come up and take a bite.
And if your night should turn to day,
A lot of people would run away.
And who the stock fit let them wear it!
Who the (cap fit) let them (wear it)!

My dear readers, have you seen what exist as dance hall entertainment these days? Not just the gymnastics, or the wwf cage matches, but the lyrics involved? From promoting violence, rape, sexual domination of women, cheating and all kinds of sundry shenanigans by hyper masculine imitation of real masculinity, to the hyper aggressive, sluttish behavior o their female counterpart.

Dance hall for the past 30 years is an exhibition of hedonism and sexual excess. The only thing taboo in this schizophrenic social setting, is the out right homosexual affirmation or in Ishawna’s case, a woman demanding oral sex from a man.

No more beloved icon than Mutabaruka has been attacked for questioning why man who sings about murdering other men. A man who many claim himself is a bow cat, would threaten a woman merely for singing a song. They accuse Mutabaruka of being a fake Rasta and supporter of oral sex, when the elder never did this. All he asked was why the threats.

If Mutabaruka not holding up Selassie as a god and refuse to smoke marijuana didn’t make him a”fake” Rasta in many eyes, before. Then i guess this is supposed to ensure his detractors can use as an excuse to ignore his valid question.

It seems like a lot of these kneegrows are scared that any woman they try to fuck, may demand equal rights in the oral sex department and are trying hard to circumvent the movement.

A lot of you keegrows should learn to be quiet if you have nothing of substance to offer when adults are in the room. This includes reprobates and misogynist like Bounty Killer and his ilk. This also includes people like Maka Diamond who is mining for likes from the male centric dacehall culture.

I don’t believe in kissing and telling and i am uncomfortable with people sharing their sexscapade publicly. However j over stand that the nature of modern dacehall is all about being outrageous.

And fyi..the song is catchy the subject matter is consistent and is not singing any thing a lot of women are not already feeling in their hearts
And then a-gonna throw me corn,
And then a-gonna call no fowl,
And then a-gonna “Cook-cook-cook, cluk-cluk-cluk.”

Some will eat and drink with you,
Then behind them su-su ‘pon you, yeah!
And if night should turn to day, now,
A lot of people would run away, yeah!
And who the cap fit, let them wear it!
Who the cap fit, let them wear it!
Throw me corn, me no call no fowl;
A-saying: “Cook-cook-cook, cluk-cluk-cluk.”
… : “Cook-cook-cook, cluk-cluk-cluk.”
Throw me corn (cook-cook-cook);
Me call no fowl (cluk-cluk-cluk)

We as men need to stop telling women how to feel or what to speak on if it is concerning “women things”. We must be a guide to them ONLY if we are trusted be a guide to them, by them. Otherwise it is not only arrogant but quite alarming to tell a grown woman she shouldnt be asking for oral sex, when we often demand, or force oral sex on them.

No wonder so many of these kneegrow are turning homosexuals. The anger and hatred to women over the most trivial of things makes us look weak and behaving worse than the savage. The original misogynist.