Twin flames

Soulmates: different souls that we encounter on our path that are cut from the same “energetic cloth” as us and are sent to help awaken and challenge us so we can become the best versions of ourselves.

Twin Flames: when our own “energetic cloth” grows so big with love that our energy splits into two. This other half becomes our Twin Flame. This often occurs over many, many lifetimes. 

The higher purpose of a Soulmate relationship is the growth and evolution of ones own consciousness, whereas the higher purpose for Twin Flames is creating a higher vibration and consciousness for the entire planet through ascending together.

Essentially, Soulmate relationships help us to raise our own consciousness, whereas Twin Flame relationships have the effect of raising the consciousness for the entire planet.

More often than not, you will work with both Soulmates and Twin Flames over the course of many lifetimes.

Everyone has Soulmates but not everyone has a Twin Flame.


Twin Flames

When Twin Flames come together, it is often to achieve something on an energetic level to help expand the consciousness of the planet.

Usually when Twin Flames unite, there is a strong desire for them both to create something together that is going to help raise the consciousness of the planet.

It often takes many lifetimes for Twin Flames to achieve this, so it could be possible that you meet your Twin Flame, but are unable to complete your mission together just yet.

Once you have both learnt to master the relationship, you will both ascend together and complete your work away from the physical dimension of earth.

Unlike Soulmate relationships, Twin Flame relationships often don’t focus too much on “challenges” and instead focus more on growth.

While Soulmate relationships can be awakening and can help you to discover who you truly are, Twin Flame relationships are about coming together for the service of others.

With Twin Flame relationships, the magnetic pull is always going to be there on a strong level. With Soulmates, the magnetic pull may change in strength depending on where you are both at in your evolution.

Soulmate Relationships:

  • Feel fated or “destined” in some way
  • The relationship does not need to be romantic, although it can be
  • There is a strong connection that may change or fluctuate in intensity
  • There are often challenges presented in order to change or shift things in your life
  • The relationship brings about a strong life lesson or a change in your life path
  • The relationship can uncover and release past pains, hurts and traumas so healing can occur
  • There can be a strong past life connection
  • The relationship may not last or may feel different once the lesson has been learnt
  • The relationship helps you to awaken to a higher level of consciousness or spirituality

Twin Flame Relationships:

  • Feel fated or “destined” in some way
  • The relationship does not need to be romantic, but there is often a connection felt on all levels
  • There is a strong connection that feels constant and stable
  • There are challenges but they are more about the “self” than the other
  • The relationship brings about a desire to team up together in order to create
  • The relationship almost forces you to respond with love as a way to survive together
  • There can be a strong past life connection together and if highly advanced, it could feel as if it is both your last lifetime on earth
  • Whether you are romantically involved or not, you will always feel a strong connection to this person, but you don’t need to be around each other to experience the connection
  • The relationship helps to prepare your for ascension into another dimension and helps to instil a higher consciousness for the planet

Often soulmate relationships are experienced on a mind, body and soul level, whereas Twin Flame relationships are experienced on a mind, body, soul and celestial/Universal level.

There are also no real rules with this, so the ultimate way to determine the difference between Soulmates and Twin Flames is to follow your own intuition and what feels right to you.

Sometimes it can be difficult to determine the difference, however away from labels, it doesn’t really matter what type of relationship you are in as long as it feels good to you.

What is a Twin Flame?


When you reach a certain level of consciousness or a higher frequency level in one life, your soul has to split into two in order to come back down into a physical body.

This means that there are essentially two of you roaming the earth. Both of you are in a way, half the energy that you originally were.

This other half of your energy is your Twin Flame, and when the two of you cross paths or meet it is like you instantly feel whole again.

So, where does that leave soul mates? Soul mates are cut from the same cloth. Imagine a huge blanket of energy and your soul is cut out of that blanket. The other souls that come from the same blanket as you are soulmates and can be friends, family and lovers.

A Twin Flame however is when that single cut, or that single soul begins getting bigger and bigger to the point where it needs to be cut itself into two different energies.

Once these two Twin Flame energies finally merge again, no matter how many cycles of reincarnation it takes, the cloth gets bigger and eventually forms new souls.

Think of it like a seed, spreading and creating more flowers as it germinates.

This energetic split does not happen to everyone. It only happens to those who have reached a certain frequency or level of consciousness.

In each “twin” there is a magnet that sort of attracts the two of you together (like attracts like), and you can meet at any time, at any stage of your life journey.

When you come together, the relationship is very, very intense. This is because you are not only dealing with the “baggage” in your own mind and body but you also have to deal with your “baggage” in another body.

This means that the two of you not only see yourself in each other, but you also see your opposite traits and flaws. Almost like looking into each other is like looking into a mirror.

To get an idea of how intense the relationship would be, think about all the baggage that you have to deal with in your own mind and in the container of your own body. Well, imagine having two of those containers it’s like there is double or even quadruple the “baggage” to sort through.

Now, this doesn’t mean Twin Flame relationships won’t work. They can definitely work, and the two of you can definitely live together in harmony however, this is all dependent on whether the two of you have learnt to love yourselves first. Because essentially, your Twin flame is you.

Twin Flame relationships are usually romantic because there is an attraction on all levels, including a sexual attraction.

When you meet your Twin Flame, there is an instant feeling of “knowing” and connection. People might comment that you look-alike or that you look “good together.” Often, the two of you will have very similar personalities and reflect the light and shadow sides of each other.

Sometimes you may not be able to recognize your Twin Flame because you have not been able to regain the same level of consciousness you acquired before you split into two.

Think of it this way…. you live one lifetime understanding a higher frequency and higher vibration, but suddenly you lose half of this and come into physical form with half the energy or consciousness you once had.

This can manifest in your early childhood years as feeling out-of-place, like you don’t belong, frustrated about the world and highly inquisitive. You may even feel depressed or have an awakening early on. You may also have highly enlightened visions or thoughts at a young age, even if you were not exposed to it.

Being at a lower frequency or vibration and having to regain your “consciousness” is a challenge that you have to overcome this time around, and sometimes it can take multiple lifetimes in order to reach the stage that you were once at.

As soon as your Twin Flame is created, you enter Earth at the same time or within a few years of each other. The only exception to this would be if you have had to reincarnate multiple times in order to properly connect with each other.

If you have a Twin Flame you will meet in every lifetime, regardless of your level of consciousness. But, whether the two of you can make it work will depend on your frequency and essentially how much you have learnt to love yourself unconditionally.

Essentially it all comes back to self-love.

Note: This post is a reprint, but it is very relevant.  Read with an open mind.

The need for personal responsibility

I have noticed a trend the last few years with people. No matter what our ethnic, religious,  political, social or personal stance is.  We all exhibit the same specific trait.

Example 1:

A race soldier murders a black body; man, woman or child and are immediately absolved by the media and the gang that the race soldier is part of.

Later this same murderous employee of the system is”legally” absolved for his heinous crimes because he is actually psychologically, seen by the dominant society as fulfilling his mandate of controlling the general population and the knee grow “threat” specifically.

The systemic murder of black males specifically is a continuous series of act above the murder of black women or girls, but the continuous murder of all of us appears to result in the same response.

Not once do these devils accept personal responsibility for their actions, because they are lead and rewarded in to believing that their criminal act was justified. They always blame the black man for his own demise. Mind you they accuse the black females of the same, but everything being contextual, the black males always get more of the shit end of the stick, the metal tip of the bullet the most. or the biting pen of the critics.

This is a more blatant and extreme example of the problem I see “trending”. Which is not really a trend but a normative.

Example 2:

A black man abuses a white woman, he is a cad, a dog and other insufferable terms. A white woman abuses a black man he deserves it or he shouldn’t have been with her. And even though amurdikkklan history is filled with white women leading the vigilantes to lynch, rape and murder black men (specifically).

Consequently, a black man abusing a black woman, he is the problem and she doesn’t deserve it. He is called every negative name under the sun and is either threatened or actually harmed for his actions. Overstand that an abusive man deserve everything he gets.

However…. a black woman abusing a black man, the narrate is that he deserved it. She was jus fed up with his abuse and retaliated.

A black man is considered, by his low-frequency behaviour,  a dog, a n****er, and other derogatory terms. A black woman exhibiting low-frequency behaviour is considered damaged and is probably seen as the victim of circumstances or victims of a plethora of bad black men in her life.

The one single consistent factor is the finger-pointing at the common denominator.

The black man.

Overstand that there are people with discernment abilities, who see the big picture and are able to point the finger where the problem lies. Whether the problem is black men acting with low-frequency OR black women acting with low-frequency.

However the trend i am seeing is not just a black man-black woman issue, but a western societal issue. And this includes any society influenced by Western ideology. For the most part, in any global society that practices me centric forms of behaviours,  most of us always refuse to, or choose not to accept responsibility for our actions.

The idea that we as sentient beings choose, instigate or otherwise cause our own actions, means we can and should be held morally accountable or even “legally” liable for those actions. This is called personal or individual responsibility.

For the Afrikan ethnic group, imprisoned in the west, do suffer from a lack of personal responsibility.  I am not talking about being responsible for something the majority of  black people are accused of by racist.  I am talking about owning your own personal shit. That shit many of us  keep dropping in the living room of life.

Today is supposed to be the celebration of “father’s day”. It’s an artificial day created by a white woman to celebrate her father, but evolved into a celebration of all fathers. unfortunately the kneegrow female and her counterpart have used this day to do knee grow dumb shit. So many people are using the occasion to say happy father day…. to single mothers. Know for a fact that single mothers don’t necessarily mean sole support mothers by the way.

Let that marinate for a minute.

I know many sole support mothers who wouldn’t dream of calling themselves both a mother and father of their children. But then my close female friends are mature and wise.

Then you have the kneegrows who lambasted the so-called dead beat dad. Dead beat. A name with such a terrible connotation. Yet a false narrative that includes many men unable to see their children because of bitter female behaviour and a court system that would rather impoverish them and jail them than to work with both parent to raise the child as a functional contributor to this society.

There are many more men in situations like this, than there are breeders and gash men out there, who refuse to own up to their failings.

I am now on a site where a bunch of single and sole support mothers are giving relationship advice. Yet reading through the lines I don’t see nobody taking responsibility for their roles in the demise of each of their relationships. You know why?  Because they lack accountability and their “cheerleaders” will not hold them accountable.

As an ethnic group we lack certain discipline that our ancestors preached. Among the most egregious is the lack of sexual discipline. Many of us will fuck anything breathing or moving. The low vibration males among us, by their practice, are like dogs looking for a hole to piss in. Or a leg to hump. Many of our women serve up their vagina in the most vulgar of ways thinking they are fucking a guy and not overstanding that as long as I am driving inside you and ejaculating,  I winning.  That is the nature of many males who behave on low-frequencies.

I win because I will be that dog looking to “piss” in your hole. But because I know you lack standards and refuse to hold yourself and the men who come at you to a certain standards, you get burned. Repeatedly.

Then afer repeated kick at the empty can, you as a female get  pregnant for dudes with multiple baby mothers who have no intentions to support them. Then you turn around and blame these gash men for your poor choices. You knew he was a gash man, yet you still laid with him and now you refuse to take responsibility for your actions.

You get into dram a with either your fuck boy toy, or with his other women. You even get into drama with a good man because he doesn’t measure up to what society tells you he should. The same goes for the waste men out there wasting women’s time, space and oxygen. You have a nice woman but she don’t “excite” like that girl who unfortunately is the communities “property”.

Because your ass is low vibratory and you can always blame someone else for your mistakes.

All of this leads to social, emotional discord among us when we should be complimentary to each other.  We fail to fix it and pass this bad acting, none accepting responsibility on to the next generation because of one simple thing.

We individually and in many cases, collectively, lack personal accountability. Once we embrace our personal role in the fuckery going on among us, we can easily and quickly find a solution. Once we find a solution, the next difficult task is to ACT responsible.  This means doing what’s right for you and for the collective.  Not what your friends or social media says should be right for you.

I have read where women are on Facebook beating the drum for the right to abort a child because….because it’s her right. This shows a lack of accountability. I have read where kneegrows defend their right to be pedophiles. Blaming their victims for being victims.

Lack of accountability.

So how can we be mad at the race soldiers and the citizen vigilantes assaulting or killing us, when we act depraved and without responsibility? How can we be angry at them for murdering and abusing us when we abdicate our natural right to protect each other and our children?

As a people our desire for attention and likes, based of the false construct of ghetto celebrity hood or the schizophrenic belief that your fame and money makes a difference, is not based on any moral compass.  To many of us morality is boring. Showing out and being noticed is more exciting. So we focus our energies there. In an arena where personal responsibility and accountability is lacking.

We have become a me centric people instead of an Ubuntu people. A selfish people instead of a community of people. And we have never accepted responsibility. Instead we blame the governments, aliens, diabetes, foot fungus and anything else but our selves for our choices.

If we are to evolve out of our post traumatic slave mentality, one of the pillars of this evolution is to embrace our responsibility for continuing  to perpetuate the very poisons that the invader savages invested on us.

The Irresponsibility and lack of accountability that were bred into us and reinforced though really civil wrong and integrationist era, is eating away at our moral fibre and is detrimental for our healing.

This is something that needs to be deeply meditated on

Of eagles and turkeys

One cannot help aging. But one can help getting “old”. One cannot help aging. But one can help growing “mature”. If as you age, you remain immature. It is just the same as growing “old”.

This requires deep thought!

What makes a great person great, is not that they become a different version of someone else. Or a slightly better version of someone else. What makes a great person great, is that they become a better version of themselves.

An eagle living among a group of turkey. Who complains about all they turkeys around it,  acting like turkeys,  will be ignored by others. It doesn’t matter if the turkeys the eagle hangs around are caged or free range. They still remain turkeys.

Don’t try to change  the turkeys around you. They are being themselves. Change from being among a group of turkeys. Remove yourself from around turkeys if you are an eagle.  Or else the energies of the turkeys will forever prevent you from being an eagle.

This requires deep thought!

Many an eagle have been served up on a farmer’s “thanks taking” platter, because they hang around turkeys so much, they start to look and act like turkeys. So when the farmer comes with his butcher knife, one turkey looks the same as another.

Whoops…there it is!

Well how does an eagle know when it doesn’t belong among turkeys? The frustration from its inability to fly, even when it never saw turkeys fly, is one example. All the eagle has to do is see ONE eagle fly by and its natural instinct to fly will kick in. If the eagle cannot master flying, it is not because it can’t,  it’s because it doesn’t know how or wasn’t shown how.

But in order to learn how to fly, the eagle HAS to remove itself from around turkeys. For the turkey energy will drain the eagle energy. The turkey energy is numerous and infectious. And while the eagle energy is more powerful, an eagle that doesn’t know it’s an eagle yet hangs around turkeys,  can never be as powerful as it naturally should be.

All an eagle has to do is look up. Look up. Look up from where it is. Eventually it will see an eagle fly by. And even if in its turkey state, its brain doesn’t recognize an eagle, it’s heart will recognize one. And in following its heart the eagle will find the courage to not only leave all those turkeys behind. It will find the will to attempt to fly.

This requires deep thoughts!

One last thing! There are two states in life.  Movement…which is life. And stagnation which is death. Death is part of the cycle of life. Many of us are confused with the idea of living your life as if there is no tomorrow. So they live their life without ANY regard for tomorrow. This is not what is meant by that statement.

Living your life as if there is no tomorrow, instructs us to get the MOST out of what we are doing now. But the most we are getting right now, should be an investment into tomorrow. If we are already doing the same thing and are getting the same results, every single day.

This is stagnation. You are killing your spirit and your purpose in life.

This requires deep thoughts!