The above is a general over view of the two types of male we have in today’s society and in using this basic blue print; you can spot these types in those around you or even yourself. It is easy for an emasculated male to regain his masculinity through proper training, a willingness to learn and over standing of the gender roles native to each of us.  It is a little less easy for the hyper masculine male to regain his masculinity, but he has to first become like a child, because his existence hinges o the image he had previously forged and it is difficult, not impossible, but difficult to shatter that image and rebuild a new one in the eye of the public. The sissies can too capture a semblance of masculinity, but that’s a long haul, as he never knew what masculinity is or was, since one does not transition from masculinity to sissification, but is rather trained that way as a child. I am reluctant to say impossible but that’s a task best left to someone with more patience, tolerance and time.

In one of my recent posts, I talked about the fact that men and women are not equal from a physical or emotional stand point, based on their gender which in of itself is based off of the chemical base, which is estrogen and testosterone. From a societal point of view—please understand that society is just our social groupings—there will always be a hierarchy system. In our social groupings a hierarchy is instituted based on physical prowess, intelligence and or provision. The physical aspect was more evident before the industrial revolution and certainly less so in modern times as society struggles to move into the computer age, while dragging its hind quarters still stuck in the industrial age. As societal personality changed, there was a concentrated push to alter the hierarchy of the general society in compliance with the schemes of those who seek to control the minds and emotions of the two genders. By pitting each against the other, they schemers are assured of not being challenged as they forge forward with the agenda; creating scarcity, which creates turmoil, which creates social unrest, which creates catastrophe, which creates entropy and death, which aids them to achieve their end, which is an enslaved and limited world population.

Not knowing your gender roll, creates confusion and the succeeding reaction will be a cross gender roll adoption where the lines become blurred and people confused about their rolls fail to act out of their natural tendencies. Thus the natural tendencies are exchanged for unnatural ones. The resulting entropy then allows for the insertion of a foreign mode of thinking that causes emotional, mental and physical death. In the case of African people, there is also cultural death as well.


“Whoever controls the (our) images, controls your self-esteem, self-respect and self-development. Whoever controls the history (our story), controls the (our) vision.” 

Dr. Leonard Jeffries

“The thing to do is to get organized; keep separated and you will be exploited, you will be robbed, you will be killed. Get organized and you will compel the world to respect you.”


Marcus Garvey

“For the ‘human race’ to get along sounds like a wonderful thing……yet and still, Africans as a people globally must first get along. Then and only then can we realistically get along truthfully with any other race. Anything other than that……you’re just fooling yourself.” 


When you control a man’s thinking you do not have to worry about his actions. You do not have to tell him not to stand here or go yonder. He will find his ‘proper place’ and will stay in it. You do not need to send him to the back door. He will go without being told. In fact, if there is no back door, he will cut one for his special benefit. His education makes it necessary”


Carter G. Woodson

We constantly hear knee-grow women crying out for a compatible man in their lives, yet the compatibility they seek is based on a superficial standard that values the feminist, anti-male principles over an organic and natural one. I have had a 22 year old tell me that her man cannot earn the same as her, he has to earn more. Note that she didn’t say she has to earn more. Women lie and say that men get jealous if she earns more than him, but in reality, women tend to be dismissive and disrespectful of men who do make less than her, because at that moment she has embraced her gender roll as the one being cared for. Thus her value based view point is that no matter her income level, he HAS to make enough to satisfy her emotional need to feel protected and cared for. Yet how does equity work jointly if women can pick and choose when they practice equity?

Materialism & the Black Woman

There was a time when the African family, men and women did whatever was necessary to make sure the next generation moved forward, not backward. To this day, we have men and women who can cook, clean, take care of the babies and work inside and outside the home. It was established that the men when he is the sole income worker, would bring his take home money and GIVE it to the woman, who he acknowledges runs the household affairs. The woman at home, admonishes her children to honour the father, because he is the MAN in the house, and even though they have a designated role and over standing , neither seeks to encroach on the others role. They over stood that they needed to do whatever they needed to do, to reach the goal. And through all of this, there is communication. COMMUNICATION. A dying art.  A man, just like a woman, must over stand and embrace their respective gender roll, regardless of the artificial characteristics placed on us. Modernity has redefined certain rolls, but at the end of the day, with the exception of a few things here or there, your nature cries out for that which makes you a woman or a man, male or female. For either one of us to fight that feeling is to create confusion and imbalance that not only affects one but all.

In a relationship the male and female should understand and use their masculine and feminine energy. The masculine and feminine energy is the essence of Gender Harmonics. When we venture outside of our gender roles, by taking in negative energies, whether through gossip from your friends, negative thoughts created out of fear or from the influence of the media propaganda, we die a slow and miserable death.   The out of control woman, inoculated by the virus of feminism and Anti-African hatred.   A man’s worth in society is based entirely on how it serves the woman’s interest.  Why is it that in society the “real men” are so tough/muscular/angry/stubborn, etc? Because its to protect the females, provide for females, and ultimately follow her orders. A man that attracts many females is seen as a “stud” because he gets more attention from them. Why? That doesn’t make him a better person. And when men get rejected they complain about “bad guy” “good guy” crap b/c they WANT to serve a woman

Speech by Marcus Garvey


Those who seek temporary security rather than basic liberty deserve neither…


Queen Mother Moore

 I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody.”


Bill Cosby

 “A man who won’t die for something is not fit to live.” 

Martin Luther King, Jr.


Our purpose in life is to leave a legacy for our children and our children’s children. For this reason, we must correct history that at present denies our humanity and self-respect.”

Queen Mother Moore

“Of all our studies, history is best qualified to reward our research.” 

Malcolm X

 Lecture series by Professor Umar Abdullah Johnson, a descendant of Fredrick Douglas

Part 1         Part 2            Part 3            Part 4          Part 5         Part 6          Part 7


2 thoughts on “The Attack on African Masculinity and the family

    1. Greetings and thank you my sister. in paraphrasing one of the videos linked above…”when injustice becomes law, rebellion becomes a duty”… people like yourself, sister Nojma, Sister Nubia I, brother professor Johnson and others are each are practicing righteous rebellion against the injustice of White Supremacy. In fact this rebellion is organic, spontaneous, yet symbiotic in that we are congregating at the point of supreme truth in a way that the doers of Isfet cannot control and manage.

      At the end of the day, my sister, truth is consistent despite opinions.


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